SO you’ve made it, that “pie in the sky, pipe dream” your friends always said would never amount to anything. You know when you went out to talk with your associates, close friends and family for input or advice. All of your hard knocks, bloody knuckles, sweat and tears combined with the frustration and hours spent finally amounted to a sustainable source of income for you and your family. You played smart and invested wisely the funny thing is that once you finally reached success, you felt disoriented and out of sorts. Lost like a Captain without his compass lost at sea. Faced with new challenges that you have never dealt with before. Yes this sounds so funny that “I’m now super successful and I don’t know what to do.” It’s more common place than you think.

To help resolve the issue we need to look at some simple ways to keep your head above water even when it’s smooth sailing ahead. Keep in mind a couple of my favorite sayings as we move forward. 1) “Life happens when you are making plans.” 2) “When in doubt work it out.” That’s some pure unadulterated simplistic advice just like everything I am about to share with you now. If you are looking to keep up on top of success then you need to pay close attention to these words of advice. First you need to stop planning and paying attention to all of the details with your finances and entrepreneurial ventures. This assures no distraction while you are off spending your money foolishly, buying up everything under the sun your little heart desires.

Then after you have burnt out all of your credit cards and worn off the magnetic stripes, you return home for an evening of unpacking and opening gifts as if it were Christmas. It surely is great and this year you got EVERYTHING you have ever wanted. Once you finished touching and experiencing all of the wonder from the opening and cleaning of the gigantic mess, you retire upstairs for an evening of relaxation and pampering from an expensive resort spa with all of the extras and a 20% gratuity for every service. You feel like a million and only spend a few thousand what a bargain. Next you head off to the bank and grab some cash for a day trip to the city, wining and dining with friends and close family. A little boutique window shopping but you can resist the temptation since you just got over the holidays, yoou pick out a few things for frinds adn finish the evening with a brilliant theater production.

You meet your loved one and head on over to the local upscale lounge for some R&R before you head off to your vacation destination. Your Chauffeur arrives and drives you to your private runway where the jet has been fueled and prepped. The pilot is arriving on scene and it’s time to board the plane. You and your family hit the skies, heading off to your destination unknown paradise, (It’s the Captain’s choice this weekend). When you arrive at the destination you quickly corral up your family and get to your village. Your private hut is waiting, furnished with food, new bedding, clothes and all of the luxuries you would ever need to enjoy your trip to paradise.

It may seem as if I am rambling on about the extravagence of your ventures over the past period of time here. However what happens next will totally be the result of your past actions. Suddenly he door bursts open and people are stunned and confuzed as they stare into your eyes. The angst adn confusion start to escalate when The resort management comes to inform you that your credit card has been declined, your room rented out. The pilot shows up and states that your bank declined the charges for the trip and now he’s suing you. You’re thrown out of the resort, your children scared and remembering back to how life used to be. Then the inevitable question comes out… your child asks “Mommy, Daddy are we poor and out of money like how life used to be?”.

You wake up screaming, covered in sweat, shaking wondering if everything you just dreamed about was actually going to happen. Then you relax, take in a deep soothing breath and smile knowing you are safe and secure. You fought to be on top and you surely aren’t going to do anything foolish to jeopardize your self now. Sure no one is guaranteed to not have financial challenges in their life. Yet we can do so much to prepare and hedge against life, to protect and shield us if we just follow the rules and plan ahead. This is what got you here and this is what will keep you here to stay. Don’t be fooled by phony success. It’snot the size of your wallet or where you choose to destine your self once in a while or even the clothes you wear that make you successful.

It’s doing what’s right and walking on the straight and narrow that gets you there and keeps you moving onward and upward. “Leaders, by definition, ARE ALWAYS THE FIRST ONES OUT OF ANY PERDICAMENT.” “Perhaps it’s because their vantage point is unobstructed by anyone in front of them. They are not held back by those who cannot keep the pace. They find opportunity where some can only see danger and doom. When others are frozen with fear, they find strength. Though their organizations are often small, their resolve is immense. In simple terms,leaders lead. As a result, they will chart the uncharted in today’s challenging economy, slip the stream of negativity and deliver to the front lines of business. At RW30, we are proud to provide the full range of tools for true leaders.

We salute these champions of business. After all, they are the ones who will blaze the path to prosperity.” This article was inspired by Flying Magazine & Cessna, I find it apropriate to note the leaders speech was written for Cessna aircraft, what a truly inspirational piece of work. Ever since I was a little boy I’ve wanted to fly, today I put this goal on my list. I plan on obtaining insrtuction to gain my pilots license before the end of 2010. I’ll keep you posted. Until then keep dreaming and achieving.

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Impending such a strong and terminal word. The pure fact that something is impending (meaning to happen in the future) is a dark and ugly shadow over many people. Especially in this crazy economy we are in. You see when that word impending is used it’s in conjunction with foreclosure, bankruptcy, death. You know what I am saying it’s going to be final.

Why is it that so many people are impending financial disaster within their own lives even when they have seen the signs all around them warning them of immediate change that needs to be taken in and implemented. It sounds so crazy to me that people would still rather live in a shadowed word where they are behind glass walls, just waiting for someone to throw a stone at you.

So forget the impending problems we need to focus on the impending solutions instead. What are you faced with? Foreclosure? Not a problem. Over Leveraged Debt? Again no problem. Are you behind on taxes? Still no problem. No matter what the financial outlook seems like it can always be altered. You do not have to wait for the worst impending situation to prompt you to get help. You have leeway and lead time to get all of your ducks in a row, so to speak.

You know it feels like you are all alone when these types of financial uncertainties take form in your life, however it’s not like you just woke up one day and there was a problem. You had some insider information that warned you about this some time ago. Maybe you just need to step aside and get out of your own way.

Have you ever felt trapped by your fear or emotions? We have all been victimized by it in one way or another well it’s time to get over it. For many positive reasons. For starter imaging eliminating tons of undue stress in your life. How about the increased cash you keep from eliminating debt and start carving out a brighter future? Nothing in life is for certain except that you have to stand up for what matters most.

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I was reading an empowering article this afternoon which really helped me to spark an amazing idea. You know when you hit the wall in your day and you just feel burnt out and complacent in your mundane routine? You just accept it and deal with life as it gets served up on a daily basis.

This is where you get a lesson from the school of liberation. Yes liberation, you see so many people have become stagnate and displaced from their original goals and intentions that once in a while people need a giant wake up call.

If you are suffering financially in your personal life and or business then you should be getting excited. This is a moment in time you should get down on your knees and be thankful and forever grateful that you got to experience this first hand. You see you are about to get liberated from poverty, challenge and above all else get the power to take back control of your life.

You know when you used to have it all. Wouldn’t it feel great if you could have it all once again? Go ahead and take a trip back to school. The school of liberation through hard knocks. It will do you some good I promise.

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Thew eyes of defeat

The eyes have it. You’ve lost the fight. You just gave your opponent the signal to come in for the kill. You know the feeling. You can see the writing on the wall. All hope is gone. Faith, desire, passion and courage have all stepped aside and made way for the victorious defeat.

You know the look, I’m not a huge sports enthusiast. For whatever reason last Saturday night I decided to watch boxing. No forethought, on a spur of impulse I switched on the HBO sports network, the big hype of the heavy weight fight between Chris Arreola and the Russian Vitali Klitshko.

First they aired the previous weekends fight featuring the returning retired veteran Floyd Mayweather, against Juan Manuel Marquez.

It was nearing the end of the 5^th round when the camera caught a shot of Marquez’s face. At that very moment I said to myself that Marquez had given up. The stats were poor for Marquez, his performance was sub, sub-par. His look was not as victorious as previous fights. In fact the look was sadness and deep self empathy. He himself knew he had lost the fight.

The wave of defeat continued through the weekend as NFL teams battled out for their reign and rule of the field and the game. The San Francisco 49ers fought a solid fight yet they lost in the end, The Oakland Raiders again were stomped by the Denver Broncos. You could see it in Coach Cables face the admiration in his teams efforts, along with the pain of such a a brutal defeat 23-3 Denver.

The third CA team the San Diego Chargers had a great game with awesome plays and a victorious 23-13 win. Not to be the sports commentator or evening news sports anchor. I bring this all up due to the attention as well as the deep emotion associated with defeat. I as well had a pretty victorious weekend that took on some of the most intense battles I have had to deal with.

The ladder of success

I felt like Marquez after an intense beating, bruised up and battered like the Raiders after the met up with Denver on their own Oakland turf. You see I have been busy with a new web project and this one is different than anything I had ever developed before. I have new team mates actually I am working with a team for the first time on a project like this.

My business partner is extremely intellectual, his mind works in a totally different manner than anything I have ever dealt with in my life. This creates some interesting nuances between us. He is such a high level critical thinker It can be difficult to follow his communication only because he can talk in such detail and description. Our meetings can go for great lengths of time and at the end of our conversations I can sometimes be exhausted.

I only bring this up to show you a solid case and point. Most people including myself would be deterred from a situation like the described ones above, conflict, discomfort, pain, weakness, defeat, ridicule from fans…

In business the results are just the same. What about in your life? Do these same results arise? Have you ever felt defeated and just wanted to give up. Did you give up or push through? I bet you solved your dilemma and arrived at a victorious end to a successful yet challenging journey.

Here’s to encouragement, growth and discovery of new found weaknesses. I am sure these teams, fighters and all of us out there who may not be extraordinary athletes, but are extraordinary individuals at what ever we do in life. I encourage you to fight through the obstacles, move around them yet resolve them. Don’t let your conquerors become your captor. You may have lost the battle but you have not lost the war. Just reinvent and join in with those of us who have been faced with those eyes of defeat and discouragement. Together we can create positive change in this world. All those in favor say “I – Eye”

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Doing the dance, you know dancing around rhe subject at hand

“Why do we dance?” “Because an unexamined life is not worth living.” This was a quote from a movie my wife was watching this morning. It was one of those chick flick movies on the Lifetime Channel. I found this question quite intriguing as I passed by in the living room. It stopped me in my tracks and made me just think about life in general.

What a statement that was. An unexamined life isn’t worth living. What was the actor stating? Really he was emphasizing a deep rooted human feeling and curiosity, to satisfy your desires, explore new reaches of your inner self. In this case a dancer was the focused intent. As it was tsated with the opening question.

Avoiding the issue at hand

You can look at this in another perspective, why do we dance around the subject of finance, financial stabilization, security, why because it’s uncomfortable for the masses. Many people are challenged and distraught about their current state of affairs. Constantly complaining about their situation at hand,yet instead of doing the right thing people just keep doing the same things that put them in a tight spot, in the first place.

You know who they are, maybe you’re one of the many who are struggling to make ends meat. You go to work daily and give it your best and still at then of the day you have more month than money. Life in itself seems meaningless, “why am I working so hard, for what”; you ask? Then the thought passes and you just keep pushing along hoping for things in life to improve and get better.

the Break Up

I talked about it the other day, when I had mentioned about hitting bottom, the day my wife told me to pack my bags. It was a real eye opener. There I was sitting on my buddies couch numb from what had just happened. I had a long talk with my good friend and then as the evening came to a close, and I was in the dark left wondering what had happened, knowing full well what I had to do. I sat there paralyzed.

Watching the dark emptiness fill my heart, that empty feeling way down inside that can undeniably take you to the darkest parts of your soul. Most people stay far away from these places, the fear and pain of doing a little self analysis, reflection in depth research into why is my life going this way.

holding on by a thread praying you will survive

It’s hilarious that it takes the majority of humans to hit a place where they’re stuck between a rock and a hard place before they realize they are holding on by a thread, watching their lives spiral out of control. I’ve seen this place a few times in my life and normally I shrugged it off, and kept plowing through the daily grind, making my way to where ever it was going.

Appearing that everything was just fine and that I’d always be okay. Usually this is how my life turned out. I always managed to land on my feet. Picking up without missing a beat. That was until tragedy struck when my Mother had passed, then the spiral downward with devastating blow after devastating blow, took my wife and I through the most stressful twists and turns, crazy life threatening situations and circumstances, and left us at a breaking point after enough of the setbacks and heartaches of defeat and failure stressed us. I have to say I was the breaking factor in the entire equation.

I bring this to the relevant subject of dance because we all dance around the fire once in a while but when it’s too darn hot in the kitchen you need to lower the heat or stay out of it. The unexplored side of entrepreneurship I embarked on took us through some pretty advanced dance moves to keep us on our toes was a trying task to say the least.

While she was away I had some amazing moments of discovery, awesome discussions that took my life again in new directions and explorations of my inner and outer self. Seeing people around me all fall victim of the poor decisions made with taking money for granted, abusing the freedom of having an instant gratification type of mindset and an uncaring thought towards the future.

This isn’t a bad or terrible way to live, although it is reckless and careless to go through life without putting up boundaries, limits and rules that are used to measure, guide and protect us from harm and minor setbacks. I remember when I had to look at finding work to supplement my income, so that I had an emergency parachute if I needed to jump ship.

My wife too had to go through the same process, on top of that she received very disheartening news about her overall health and wellness. It was at this point we both realized what we wanted from a relationship and it was everything we already had and so much more. We had also realized that we both needed to be stable and financially stable so we could realize all of our dreams.

We had to learn all of the basics because we ignored all of the warning signs, we lived with danger and desperation daily. Our greatest fears were coming true. There she was in another town, living with friends and I was in my own independent element as well. We had to set up goals, make commitments to change those things that were not balanced and shred all of the negative habits, influences, people and circumstances from our lives.

We had to regain our vision of our goals, chart new courses so we could get back together and back on track to our future. There were no choices, either do or die. We knew everything would always work out, but this time was different, we knew we had to work things out it was a matter of many lives involved. Risking everything on a pipe dream wasn’t going to be an option, not that a pipe dream was the dream at all, but pie in the sky dreams are just that.

If you have big goals and desires you need gigantic actions, and measurable results quickly. You have to take a deeper inventory of what really needs to go on. The advice of others will tell you who is authentic and qualified to remain a trusted friend. Let me tell you when all chips are down and life seems to have no purpose the allies you meet are incredible and will carry you down to the finish line. Running right along side you cheering you in all of the way.

We encourage you to dance the test of time, live a life of experience and joy, stop limiting yourself to the same old, same old routine. If you are faced with trouble financially whether it’s your home mortgage, job loss, buried in unsecured debt, faced with an impending bankruptcy or foreclosure you have to know that it’s just as much of a gift as it is a nightmare. The lessons you learn from experience will make you humble and eliminate your stubbornness or you will meet defeat and pick up the pieces and learn from your mistakes.

Reduced stress

Either way you deserve a partner to dance with, first you have to be willing and coachable if you want to learn. You must recognize a need to solve your stress, reduce your financial strain and relieve the pain of being so challenged, this can be physically or mentally in pain. Most people will never know what humiliation, suffering and sorrow life can create, unless they have lost everything.

We mourn when a close relative or friend passes. We feel saddened when we lose valuables in our life and we loose our sanity when our finances spiral out of control. Personally my wife and I have lost close family, friends, personal possessions and even our selves with all we have faced.

 Most people would stop right there and many do. We have seen both sides of losing everything, those who just give up and become those passing faces in a crowd and those who fight to regain control of what has been lost. We have met some of the most humble and caring people over my travels of the night, made some really awesome friends too. Our attraction of the right people into our has been off the charts in terms of the friends, mentors, and partnerships that have been created.

Now it’s our turn to give it all back too you. We want you to shred the dead weight and regain control of your life, taking you back to a time when life seemed so much simpler. Imagine no more cloudy days of confusion, stress and overwhelmed feelings of fear and panic. Lowered anxiety levels because you chose to take action today instead of waiting for the wound to become a hazardous infection in your life.

Having control over your financial affairs, your personal relations, proving to your self that all of that silliness was just one of life’s little tests to keep you aware of whats real and what isn’t. You’ve heard of the Paredo Principle, you know the 80/20 rule. Where 20% of your actions are earning you 80% of the outcomes. So in reflection of the principle here Teri Lynn and I want to be that 20% for you.

We want to be the 80% of your positive outcome with transition and positive change, we want you to succeed in everything you set out to do that brings you into alignment with your passions and purpose in life. As always we strive to provide you with tips tools and resources to help you stay on top of your money.

There are thousands and thousands of resources out there for financial advice and for savvy, on top of their money management types of folks we offer several services to compliment and enhance their financial goals. For those of you in need we offer services to get you back on track the fastest way possible. From basic financial mentor-ship to services from bankruptcy through loan modification, debt settlement, debt elimination. Retirement planning advice that you are in control of making the decisions not the broker.

If you own a small business we can offer you solutions to reduce your expenses by up to 95% of the money you are currently spending. All of this starts with the way you handle your past taxes, and as my gift to you We want to provide you with a free tax review, financial assessment and recommendation. Yes I said the f-word. FREE, and I will say it again FREE TAX REVIEW.

We want you stable, ready for change and recovering from the whirl wind chaos the credit and financial markets have placed on our economic system. We are no where near the end, with hundreds of millions of dollars being created for health care reform, stimulus packages, tax bracket changes, we are poised for great wealth.

• If you are certain that you want more from life and know that life has more to give than what you’ve got

• If you are sick and tired of being sick and tired of being broke

• If you can say you need to save more for the future

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• What’s Your Social Economic Profile You’ve heard the news, read the stories and even seen the victims of devastation as the economic crisis spins out of control. You hear a different story on every channel on the television. A new family crisis, a new company going under and of course a new bailout plan......
• The breaking point in your action steps You know when you hit that brick wall and you feel stuck. Everything that you do seem like it has impact or bearing on your goal achievement. That moment when you feel like you're stuck in a mud puddle and can't gain any traction or forward momentum? You move......
• Planning your way to wealth When it comes to wealth creation planning is the most crucial element. This requires forethought as well as accountability to your financial advisers, your actions as well as your overall strategy for amassing wealth. Planning your way means you actually sit and evaluate your past, present and future financial needs.......
• These 29 Tips To Help Save You Money Funny how when we look at money, financial affairs and wealth we often overlook some of the most simple things. For example what about cutting back on items or finding ways to save on the purchases of the items or services, I read this article in Readers Digest a couple......
• Have a very Merry Christmas May You Be Healthy Happy and Wealthy There was only eight day until Christmas and all through the house everyone was scurrying about. Plans of parties, family frolic and cheer, soon Saint Nicholas was be here. Children with excitement and anticipated fun from the gifts soon to be here and parents on lookout for snoopers and......

• How To Figure Out What To Do With Your Life? As someone who's struggled with finding meaning in life, I can understand the frustration young high schoolers feel when they ask me what they should be doing with their life. Unfortunately, I never have a good answer. But now thanks to Penelope Trunk, I can direct them to this page......
• How to Set New Financial Goals No matter how old you are, or how much money you have in the bank, it is never too late to start setting new financial goals. A big part of successfully saving money and making more money is the formation of goals, keeping track of your progress and finding that......
• Why is being debt-free so unpopular? The most visited posts on this blog are the ones about Douglas Andrew's Missed Fortune 101. The main one is here. I still get comments every once in a while on this post. In case you haven't read the book, the crux of Mr. Andrew's way to riches (very boiled......
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• Interview with Free from Broke How has Free from Broke influenced you financially? One major thing running Free From Broke has been that it keeps me accountable for my actions! I write about ways to deal with your personal finances and to save money so I feel compelled to follow my own advice. It......